Signature speaking talk
Crossing Beyond
the Comfort Trap
A personal and reflective talk about the life we build, the comfort we value—and the moment comfort can quietly begin asking less of us.
First delivered at Water Women’s Campout, the talk brings together Heli’s crossings of the Kaʻiwi Channel, the story behind Too Old Not To, ageing, uncertainty, courage and the need for connection. It invites audiences to consider where safety ends, where avoidance begins, and what may still be asking to be lived.
- Keynotes and conference talks
- Festival, community and women’s events
- Film screenings with conversation or Q&A
- Adaptable length and emphasis






